When people talk about being a “good student,” they might mean well-behaved, polite, or punctual. But when I think about a good dance student, I mean something a little different. To me, it’s about having strong learning skills. The skill of how to learn can take you so much further than just taking many classes and workshops or having that raw talent that some people naturally possess.
The skill of how to learn can take you further than raw talent ever will.
It’s not about perfection or dance skill. You may have natural rhythm or flexibility, and you may take lots of classes and workshops, but if you haven’t cultivated the habits of learning, you’ll eventually hit a wall. On the other hand, students who know how to learn keep growing steadily, and that’s what keeps dance exciting.
Why should you care about being a better student? Because when you do, you’ll learn faster, retain more, and enjoy class more deeply. You’ll also find yourself less frustrated when things don’t click right away. Instead of waiting for the teacher to fix you, you’ll know how to approach the movement, experiment with corrections, and figure it out. You’ll get even more out of the classes and workshop you take. You’ll be able to learn even more from just watching the dancers you admire. That skill is empowering, and it keeps dance fun.
Here are some of the habits I’ve found to be the most helpful.
1. Show Up Fully
Oh yeah, the basics do matter: come to class on time, don’t miss too many sessions, and practice between classes. Yada, yada, yada. But just as important as being there physically is showing up mentally. When you step into the studio, leave your work deadlines, family stress, and errands at the door. For that hour or two, be fully present and concentrate on what is going on in class. The more attention you give to class, the more you’ll actually retain. I know, it’s sometimes easier said than done, this too may take some practice!
When you step into the studio, be fully present. Leave the outside world at the door.
Dance is as much about focus as it is about movement.
2. Develop Spatial Awareness
Dance is never done in isolation, even in class (especially in class!). Are you aligned with those around you, or edging into their space? My friend Johara calls it your “personal bubble,” and it moves with you. Staying aware of spacing helps you respect your classmates and also prepares you for performing in groups, where formations and clean lines are essential. That sense of spatial awareness will serve you well even if you are dancing solo; be aware of your positioning, the patterns you trace along the floor, and how you are using your space in relation to your audience. Always be aware of where you are placed in the space you inhabit.
3. Tune Into the Music
Rhythm is the invisible glue holding everything together. Are you right on the beat, or slightly ahead or behind? Do you notice when you drift? When there’s no strong drum to latch onto, can you count the music and stay consistent with the group? Beyond rhythm, listen for musicality. Notice where the accents land, how the mood shifts, and what the music is asking of you. How do the unique sounds of different instruments influence your movement choices? Dancing in sync with music, and with each other, transforms “doing steps” into dancing. In Raqs Sharqi in particular, there is a vital interrelation between the music and the movement; this connection is stronger than it is in some other dance styles. Dance so that you are an embodiment of the music. Sometimes I can watch a video of a really good dancer with the sound off and hear in my mind the music even though my ears aren’t picking anything up.
4. Keep Posture in Mind – Always
If you’ve ever had me as a teacher, you’ve probably heard me harp on about posture, and for good reason. Posture is the starting point for everything! The way you hold your body affects balance, alignment, the way movements travel through you, and how others perceive your dancing. It will impact your ability to execute a movement, and how polished that movement looks. Whether you’re in motion or standing still, tune into your posture.
Posture is everything. It shapes how movements travel through your body and how others see your dance.
It’s not glamorous work, but it’s transformative.
5. Pay Attention to Direction and Angles
This might sound obvious, but it often trips people up. As a basic start, are you moving left when everyone else is going right? Are you turning the same way as the group (clockwise or counter-clockwise)? Are you on the left hip when everyone else is on the right (yes, even when doing fast movements like a shimmy). If the teacher suddenly asks the class to turn around and perform facing the back wall, do you get mixed up? Beyond basic directions, also notice the angles. Are you facing straight forward, diagonally, or somewhere in between? Small differences in direction can make a move look polished and intentional instead of messy.
6. Watch Closely – Very Closely
One of the best pieces of advice I ever heard was from Hadia when I took a workshop with her in Ottawa. She said to the group: “Watch and do what I’m really doing, not what you think I’m doing.” That stuck with me. Often, we assume we’ve “got it,” but when you really watch the teacher — where their weight is, how their feet are balanced, how their shoulders are angled, how big or small the movement is, what the follow-through or counter-movement is, how much energy is put into a move — you realize there are layers you may have missed. Use the mirror! I sometimes tell my classes, “keep one eye on yourself and one eye on the instructor”. Notice the differences, then experiment with self-correction to match what you see. That kind of active observation accelerates your learning.
Watch for what the teacher is really doing, not what you think they’re doing.
Try This in Your Next Class: Keep one eye on your teacher and one on yourself in the mirror. Look for the differences and self-correct.
7. Set Your Ego Aside
This one is big, but maybe a little delicate for some. Class is not a performance. It’s not the time to show off how much you know or to impress your classmates (or worse, spend time assessing how your classmates are doing!). The dancers I admire most are the ones who can be dazzling performers on stage, then humble and attentive students in class. If you’re paying attention to whether your classmates are watching you, you’re not paying full attention to the instructor and what you could be learning. For me, that’s the valuable message in the “dance like no one is watching” that everyone is so fond of quoting.
Class is not a performance. Let go of ego and give yourself over to learning.
When you let go of ego, you open yourself up to learning, and you make the space more welcoming for everyone else too.
8. Reflect After Class
After class, take a few minutes to reflect. What felt easy? What challenged you? Where did you get confused? Write it down if it helps. This can help you identify some personal goals you would like to work towards.
Quick Tip: Take 2–3 minutes after every class to jot down what felt easy and what challenged you. Re-visit before your next class and see if anything has changed. Active reflection helps cement learning.
9. Practice Outside of Class
Even a few minutes a day makes a huge difference. Go over that tricky transition, drill your basics, or just dance for fun to your favourite song. Repetition outside class is where your body really absorbs what you learned. You don’t have to get complicated about it – no packing up your dance bag and shlepping to a studio to practice; you can take a minute to adjust your posture while walking to the bus, you can practice a shimmy while loading the dishwasher, you can do a few hip circles as part of your morning wake-up routine. I sometimes jokingly tell my students they can practice their shoulder shimmies while sitting at the computer or driving (just make sure you stay in your lane and don’t wobble the steering wheel!).
Did You Know?: Even 5 minutes of practice at home can make the next class feel smoother. It’s not about hours. It’s about consistency.
10. Use Visualization as Practice
Not all practice has to be physical. Visualization is a powerful tool that many elite athletes and performers rely on, and it works beautifully for dance too. You can run through choreography in your mind, step by step, to strengthen memory. You can compose and test out creative ideas mentally before trying them with your body. You can even imagine yourself on stage, picturing a confident performance and how you want to project energy to the audience. Positive visualization can set you up for success!
If you can see it clearly in your mind, you’re already training your body to make it real.
This kind of mental rehearsal helps improve focus, reduces nerves, and deepens your interpretation skills. Even when you can’t physically move, you can still practice and grow through visualization.
11. Stay Curious and Ask Questions
If you don’t understand something, ask. Chances are, others in the room are wondering the same thing. Good questions show that you’re engaged and help your teacher support you more fully.
Seek out multiple sources of learning and inspiration. Different teachers will offer a different approach to movement and expression. Complimentary learning activities, like music and rhythm classes, other other movement styles, might bring you some added bonus.
Curiosity keeps you from getting stuck in “automatic mode” and opens the door to deeper learning. Explore!
12. Be Kind to Yourself
Dance is a journey filled with ups and downs. Some days you’ll feel graceful and strong, while other days you might feel clumsy or frustrated. That’s normal. The slump is real (*read my other post about that subject*), and we all experience it from time to time. Learning anything comes with waves of progress and plateaus. The most important thing is to be kind to yourself. Don’t put too much pressure on being perfect or advancing as quickly as others. Everyone’s path looks different.
The key is persistence. Trust the process, keep showing up, and give yourself grace along the way.
By releasing unnecessary pressure and allowing yourself to grow at your own pace, you’ll not only improve steadily but also keep your love for dance alive.
Final Thoughts
Being a good dance student isn’t about being perfect. It’s about developing the habits that help you learn more deeply and joyfully. If you show up fully, pay attention, practice (both in body and mind), and stay humble, you’ll find yourself not only improving faster but also enjoying dance on a whole new level.
And when you pair good habits with persistence with kindness toward yourself, you’ll realize that growth in dance doesn’t just shape your movements; it shapes your confidence and resilience in life too. And really, that’s what it’s all about.